Abuse

Life is real

Don’t let others to change your personality. Don’t let them to tell you that there is something wrong with you. Long time ago, I let a person to manipulate me, it took me five long & painful years to break free. I’m healthy, strong and free. If you are in the abusive relationship or know someone who is in the toxic situation please help them. There are so many organisations to reach to. Sometimes, a simple conversation can be an eye opener or at least encouragement to work towards better future. 

Watch for these signs:

* You are blamed for everything you do

* You are never good enough no matter how hard you try 

* You are being called names 

* You are being mentally manipulated making you believe that you have a severe mental issue which can be changed with the solely help of  the abuser ( you will be magically healed as soon as you start behaving according to the abuser’s wishes)

* Your family is being blamed for your ‘poor mental state’ and you are being told to stay away from them

* You are allowed to go out but when you do so you are being ignored or exposed to abusive behaviour e.g. being yelled at for not making dinner or spending money at a piece of clothing

* You are being controlled

* You are exposed to violent behaviour towards material objects and then you are blamed for ‘causing’ it

* You feel threatened and constantly check if the things are done the way the abuser wants them to be 

* You are told that you are the biggest disappointment and cause of such miserable life the abuser is forced to lead because of you 

Please,  don’t hesitate to contact : 

http://www.mensadviceline.org.uk/

http://www.samaritans.org/

https://www.womensaid.org.uk/

annhana22@icloud.com 

Shine bright and remember you are the most unique and wonderful person who has every right to expierience love , respect and joy !!! Life is beautiful 😊 

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