An embedded soul in the night sky.
Maternity Leave Ends
Going back to work after maternity leave fills me with dread and sorrow. I’m not looking forward to being away from my daughter missing out on her developmental milestones during the day. I know she will be in good hands looked after by nan, myself and my partner but I’m her mother. I feel that it’s my responsibility to be there for my baby 24/7 no matter how monotonous it feels. If I could I would surely take more time off but I’m not able to. People say that it’s nice to have some time only to yourself, be able to drink a hot cup of tea/ coffee and chat to adults but it doesn’t sound appealing to me. Unfortunately, I’m not elated by the prospect of willingly leaving my baby and running to work with open arms. I might change the way I feel about return to work after…
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Parenthood Vs Life
What was your life like before having children?
Many people would describe it as existence blossoming with freedom, blessed with blissful nights, financial liberation and self- centred approach.
I would say- unappreciated HEAVEN.
What is your life like now?
My life appears as emotional mayhem filled with love & various responsibilities which I would not trade for anything else in the world. It’s a self- discovery journey often flooded with tears and laughter. I’m not perfect by any means, half of the time I may appear confident knowing what I’m doing but in my oh so caring, bum pinching reality I poop my pants with fear of not doing the right thing. I’m sure I’m not the only being on this planet who feels this way so CHEERS to PARENTHOOD and its PERKS.
My life constantly evolves in many wonderful ways.
My inner world blossoms anytime I want.
What path are you walking?
No reason to explain the illogical path I am walking
Drawing water from a well, turning on a tap
These all bring the same results
Walking from A to B can take hours or days
Though road is littered at the sides
Travelling through a seamlessly clear path
Unaware of the waste we pass
Drawing water from a well
Draws more breathes
Than when I turn on a tap
One place will make me ache
Another will push me to intoxicate
Each will make me sleep
Wake me up blind
And go to sleep awake
The day passes by
Dwelling on my mistakes
Let me know in the comments below!
Personal growth doesn’t happen overnight, it’s a slow and immaculate process. It takes strength, determination and perseverance to become happy with yourself.
Are you happy with yourself as a person? Do you struggle with self-worth? What do you work on at the moment?
Let me know in the comments below!
Love & Peace x
Mental Health Awareness !!!
You name it
If you have ever suffered from a mental health disorder you know what it feels like to have a constant battle with your mind.
Look after yourself, have a mental health issue under control, live your life by enjoying it and BE PROUD.
BE PROUD of who you are because you are the warrior!
The warrior who haven’t given up and who has been able to embrace this part of their life living it to the fullest.
Spread the awareness of mental health to those who still follow deeply embedded in the society stereotypes.
These stereotypes are false because they deem people who suffer from mental health issues incapable of functioning in the modern world.
Together we can abolish these assumptions by…
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What do you do when you worry?
If you suffer from anxiety I bet that you worry a lot. Worrying acts like a cushion protecting you from falling down into the abyss of anxiety. You are convinced that you need it because you would be lost without it. You keep telling yourself and others who have noticed your worrying pattern that it’s always good to have ‘a plan b’. Deep inside you are tired but you are ploughing through to keep yourself and your loved ones ‘safe’. Are they really safe? How can you protect them? You can protect them by being a good and sensible human being. Your plan won’t save them, your plan gives you a false impression that you would protect them. In reality, you waste your time, the time you could spend with your loved ones instead of planning.
If you ever worry and start making a plan based on anxious thoughts and…
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The avalanche of chores, a baby and pets…. coping techniques 😊
It’s widely known that the avalanche of chores, demanding pets and a baby may cause your anxiety to thrive and flourish. We obviously don’t want that to happen!
The anxiety has been with me since childhood, I have used multiple techniques to cope with it but having an infant and two pets in the household definately makes managing anxiety more challenging.
What I’ve been doing is keeping everything under control by controlling my breathing and fleeing the chaos😎
Unsettled baby, the house being up side down, a cat running around like a headless chicken, anxiety, hopelessness and frustration rising quicky? Sounds familiar? If yes then…
STOP FOR A MOMENT
TAKE A DEEP BREATH
INHALE, EXHALE while drawing a cirle and a square with your pointing finger up in the air five times with your eyes closed (it’s a distraction method).
NOW GET UP, GET YOURSELF AND YOUR BABY…
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